There’s something magical about tying the knot in a faraway place, surrounded by your loved ones. But when it comes to planning a destination wedding, that magical feeling can start to fade. From marriage requirements to language barriers to the act of just getting there, there’s a lot that goes into it. Oh, and not to mention your guests’ availability, the weather, and your wedding budget. Sound overwhelming? We know. Don’t fret.
Before you jet-set off to your dream wedding destination, you’ll want to make sure that you’re prepared. That’s why we’ve put together this guide to help you plan the perfect destination “I do’s.”
Why Have A Destination Wedding
Are you on the fence about having a destination wedding? While planning may seem like a difficult feat, there are a lot of advantages. Some of them include:
- They tend to be a bit more stress-free, thanks to wedding planners and coordinators
- These weddings can actually be cheaper than traditional weddings—and often are
- They double as a vacation with your loved ones
- They can help slim down your guest list
- It’s a kickstart to your honeymoon which is a win
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How To Pick Destination Wedding Location
Once you’re set on traveling for your special day, it’s time to pick a destination wedding location. The location determines the aesthetic of the day, your travel time, and impacts your budget.
Is there a spot that is special to you and your partner? Maybe the place you got engaged. Or the first place you two ever took a trip together. No matter what the significance is, you want to understand the travel requirements and restrictions beforehand. For example, will your guests need a passport or visa? Are there any travel warnings, health concerns, or political problems? If there are concerns (think vaccinations or quarantines), you need to be clear with your guests as soon as possible.
Lastly, think about the oldest guest that you will be inviting. Will it be difficult for them to travel to the destination of your choice? Is it feasible to have your great-grandmother travel ten hours by plane? If not, be sure to plan ahead with a virtual ceremony for guests who can’t attend in-person.
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Select A Destination Wedding Date
After picking a location, you’ll need to pick a date. While your availability is important, it’s best to research the weather conditions during your ideal season. In most places, the best weather will also mean an increase in travel time and crowds. This can lead to fewer hotel options and higher prices overall.
If you decide to book your wedding date during peak season, book your venue and hotel room block as soon as possible. Check out shoulder seasons, or the times just outside peak season, so that you’ll still get great weather conditions for less money.
Junebug Tip: The off-season is typically not popular for a reason. This usually means poor weather conditions and a lack of activities. Don’t accidentally cut costs by hosting your wedding during hurricane season!
Once a date is picked, send your save-the-dates eight to twelve months out. From there, your official wedding invitations should go out five to six months before the wedding. Your wedding announcements will give guests time to get their travel in order and avoid too many changes in cost.
While guests are paying for things like travel fees, hotels, and activities the costs add up quickly. So if you have guests who can’t afford to attend, don’t be upset.
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Research Local Marriage Requirements
While we wish getting married was as simple as hiring an officiant, it’s, unfortunately, a little more complicated than that. Some countries have residency requirements or need other certificates before you can legally wed.
Read up on every requirement they have before traveling so that you’re not surprised once there. If it’s impossible to have your wedding legally recognized in the country you’ve chosen, consider tying the knot in a civil ceremony before you go. This way, you can say “I do” in front of your guests and rest assured that it’s the real deal.
Take A Trip
If possible, take at least one trip to your destination during the wedding planning process. This gives you time to scout out a venue, lodging, and rehearsal dinner spots while meeting with potential vendors.
If you’re able, visit a second time for tastings, hair and makeup trials, meetings with florists, and any of your other vendors If this isn’t possible–we can’t stress this enough–hire a local wedding planner!
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Vet The Wedding Vendors
Speaking of wedding planners–this is where they come in handy. A local planner will know all of the best vendors around. While you can find many options online, make sure that you’re comfortable with the planneryou hire. They have firsthand experience with multiple different vendors in every category possible.
Whether or not you choose to hire a planner, conduct video calls with your vendors. This will help you get to know them, their working style, and help them understand who you are as a couple. It also gives you the chance to spot any red flags that may arise–like poor communication.
If your budget permits and you feel more comfortable, another option is to bring vendors from home. Just expect to cover their travel expenses and lodging costs.
Find Lodging Recommendations For Guests
While it’s not expected that you’ll take care of guest accommodations, your guests will appreciate having a list of lodging options within a range of budgets. They’ll likely feel more comfortable staying somewhere that is hosting other guests from the wedding, too. Especially if your destination wedding is in a country they haven’t visited before.
To help with costs, consider offering hotel room blocks. This usually means you’ll be able to negotiate a lower discounted rate while keeping guests together. If this is something you plan on doing, call the hotel before you set a date. You don’t want to have a date picked and have no hotel options for guests.
And most importantly, take into consideration how far the lodging is from your venue and the airport. If it’s near your venue but far from the airport you should plan for shuttles, rideshare services, or other transportation options that will make getting from point A to point B a piece of cake.
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Plan Events And Activities For Guests
There’s no doubt that your guests will be excited to celebrate you. Consider expanding your itinerary as a thank you to them for traveling to be with you. Some couples choose to turn their special day into a wedding weekend. However, this isn’t necessary. You can go as big as you want, or as simple as hosting a welcome party or post-wedding brunch.
If you’re getting married somewhere known for its activities or food, consider organizing a tasting or an afternoon excursion. This is a chance to bond with your guests and soak up the culture of your destination.
Give Your Guests Welcome Bags
Upon your guests’ arrival, consider giving out welcome bags to provide some homey comfort. These bags can include essentials like bug spray, sunscreen, city maps, local snacks, pain medicine for the inevitable hangovers, and more.
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How To Save Money Planning A Destination Wedding
While getting married in an exotic destination can ultimately be cheaper than a local wedding, if you’re looking to save a little extra cash, consider these tips:
Get married on an off-day
Getting married on a weekday will save you money on the venue and give you the chance to enjoy your destination a little longer. Flights and lodging will also likely be cheaper as well.
Consider all-inclusive resorts
While all-inclusive resorts may seem like a hefty price tag upfront, they’re actually a great way to save money down the line. If you purchase one of their packages, you’ll get flowers, cake, photographer, entertainment, food, drink, and more for a set price. All-inclusive wedding packages also take away some of your wedding planning stress.
Use nature as a backdrop
If you’re vowing to spend the rest of your life with your partner at a destination wedding, there’s a good chance that the destination you choose is naturally beautiful in the first place. Use that to your advantage and have nature act as your backdrop rather than spending money on decor.
Choose local florals, ingredients for your menu, and beyond
Of course, your destination is much more than just a pretty backdrop. It’s also home to beautiful flowers, food, and more. Make use of these ingredients and decor (rather than importing inexpensive items) to watch your costs drop.
Be on the lookout for deals on flights and hotels
When booking travel, use sites like Skyscanner and KAYAK. Set up price alerts so you get notifications when prices drop. This way, you know you’re getting the best deal out there.
Junebug Tip:
While browsing for flights, use incognito mode on your browser so that the website can’t store your cookies to store information–which tends to jack up prices.
Nixing the wedding registry
Save your guests money by nixing the wedding registry. Your guests are already paying to celebrate with you. Let that be their gift for you.
Now that you’re ready to hop on a plane for your perfect destination wedding be sure to check out these etiquette tips you need to know!
