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Our offbeat wedding at a glance: We’d always planned to elope instead of having a full-on wedding, but once we were officially engaged and the excitement and congrats came flooding in we realized how much we really wanted to celebrate with all of our favorite people when it came time to say “I do”. We wanted the day to be done our way and to fully reflect who we are and the things that make us happy. Our small budget meant it was mainly up to us and our most trusted circle to pull the whole thing off, and it was absolutely perfect.
Our invites were designed by our very talented animator friend Rob Yulfo based on a bizarre photo I found and very poorly photoshopped with our faces years earlier.
The venue was an art and music space where the film company Zac works with hosted a festival where he secretly declared to my sister that he was going to marry me someday early into our relationship.
Rather than numbers, we used our favorite pop culture couples to label our tables, ranging from Kermit and Miss Piggy to Toxie and Claire from “The Toxic Avenger.”
We really wished we could have our fur son Seymour with us at the wedding, so we represented him in our cake toppers.
Center pieces were DIYed by Zac’s mom and my family and “bridal brain trust” set up all the decorations!
My bouquet was purchased at Trader Joe’s for 5 bucks with a touch of crafty magic from my sister.
Photos by Casey Fatchett
Our favors were cream soda and fireball, a favorite cocktail of ours.
Tell us about the ceremony: We broke tradition a little and held our cocktail hour before the ceremony which gave everyone including us a chance to mingle, grab a drink, some popcorn and some candy before settling into the backyard for the ceremony. The whole space was set up by my best friends in my “bridal brain trust” and my family along with the venue crew and it was such a nice surprise to walk in and see the beautiful work they’d done. Pictures of Zac and I were hung all over along with the decorations we picked out. My mom went above and beyond what I envisioned to give us a WELL-stacked candy bar that dreams are made of. Each table was adorned with beautiful red and black centerpieces made by Zac’s mom.
Bright, Colorful murals surrounded us in the backyard so very little needed to be done to dress us up that space. Guests sat in white chairs with different colored ribbons to wave during the processional.
Pops of red are peak glamor to me, so I sported red pumps with a knee length dress to show them off and a red lip. My best friend and my sister were my co-maids of honor and wore matching polka dot dresses to accompany me down the aisle. Zac coordinated with me in red plaid pants and shoes.
Music was one of the most important things to me, and our wonderful DJ Bernard did a great job playing to our tastes. We complied our favorite love songs into a Spotify playlist that played during cocktail hour to set the tone. Our wedding party and family walked down the aisle to The Vitamin String Quartets arrangement of The Beach Boys “ God Only Knows” , and my father walked me down the aisle to their arrangement of The Cure’s “Just Like Heaven”. At the processional The Beach Boys “Forever” played, an idea that started as a dumb joke about a classic “Full House” episode , but after listening to the non-Uncle Jesse version and finding ourselves all choked up we knew we had to choose it.
We kept our ceremony short, sweet, and personal . Zac’s best friend Vito who we lived with us early on in our relationship pulled double duty as best man and our wedding officiant. We could think of nothing better than to be married by someone who was pretty much there from day 1. We’re wrestling nerds, so he rocked a Macho Man Randy Savage cape to conduct the ceremony. Vito wrote a beautiful ceremony that highlighted our relationship and what love means to us, and then we each tearfully read our own vows to each other. Neither of us had seen the others vows prior to the ceremony or read what Vito planned , so we were just as in the moment as our guests.
Tell us about the reception: After the ceremony guests filed in for the reception dinner, which was a build-your-own burger bar catered by Bareburger. We first bonded over our love of cats, horror movies, and burgers — so it only seemed fitting plus it was a very budget-friendly option compared to many more traditional wedding caterers.
We were able to fully customize our menu and provide vegan, gluten-free, lean protein, and low carb options so our guests could accommodate their dietary needs.
While we originally planned to have dining mixed with dancing like more traditional weddings do, during the set up we realized there was no space for a dance floor with all the tables out.
We made a quick pivot, and instead after dinner half the tables were taken out and the last few hours of our wedding basically became a giant dance party.
While it wasn’t what was planned, it was exactly what should have been. Our DJ played our favorites from obscure new wave and punk hits, classics 80s and 90s jams, Bowie classics , and classic rock. He even squeezed in a last minute request for a father daughter dance from my dad. O
ur photographer Casey Fatchett did an amazing job of capturing the joy and laughter that filled the dance floor that night, and the more tender moments too like our first dance to The Ramones cover of “Baby I Love You”. We ended the night with a big group sing along to Weird Al’s “Yoda”, a moment we hold dear in our hearts to this day.
What was the most important lesson you learned from your wedding? Remember this day is all about you and your partner. While I really wanted to do things my way, I also have chronic people-pleasing tendencies and overthought way more than I needed to. Things may go “wrong” come the day of no matter how much you plan, but if all is right you’ll be too swept up in the joy of the day to even notice— I know we were!
A weekend full of color, culture, and pure joy—this elegant and meaningful outdoor wedding has us wishing we were invited. During these uncertain times, Arushi and Jaspreet were hit with tough wedding planning obstacles. With the help of their planner The Storybook Event, they were able to bring to life their dream wedding, without sacrificing the attendance or involvement of their loved ones.
The stunning floral arrangements by Prashe Decor, were the main decor element—covering and draping the ceremony space in a jaw-dropping fashion. This couple prioritized the involvement of culture and their loved ones throughout every thoughtful detail. Photographer Bella Lumi Photography did a great job capturing every moment—showing the prominent love and joy that radiated from this celebration of union. Keep scrolling to see more shots of this radiant couple and their beautiful day.
The Couple:
Arushi and Jaspreet
The Wedding:
Houston, Texas
COVID Can’t Cancel This Outdoor Weekend Wedding
After a year of uncertainty and so many sacrifices due to COVID restrictions, the most memorable part of the day was simply getting married! We had waited so long for the day to finally be here, and despite all the challenges that came our way, we relished in the beauty of our wedding day and the happiness of knowing we could finally celebrate our marriage surrounded by our nearest and dearest.
The Benefits Of Hiring Trusted Wedding Vendors
Personally, I knew that on my wedding day, I did not want to be that bride that is stressed about the minor details and wanted to be able to enjoy the whole experience. One of the best decisions we made was building a vendor team that we trusted to make sure everything came together in the best way possible. From our wedding planner to the decor team, to our wonderful photographers and videographers, I honestly felt like we had full confidence in their work. There will always be mishaps and challenges that arise on the wedding day itself, but if you know that your vendors always produce amazing work, it is easier to sit back and let everything smooth out organically.
Congratulations to Arushi and Jaspreet on their beautiful day—in spite of the challenges they faced during their planning process! Whether or not you’re trimming your guest-list, avoid sacrificing intimate and personalized details with these tips for planning a unique wedding, no matter your wedding size.
A stunning historic chapel, a perfectly green countryside, and a surprise from their two kids—Elisa and Alessandro had the wedding of their dreams at the Abbey of San Pietro. By using the venue as the centerpiece, the couple added perfectly romantic details like a soft color palette, stunning floral arrangements by Sartoria Floreale, and timeless table decor.
They were surrounded by their family and friends, and included their two kids in the ceremony and—trust us—it’s really adorable. We’re excited to share this totally romantic and intimate wedding, captured by Junebug members Andrea & Federica. Keep on scrolling to get the Italian inspiration you were looking for. Adiamo!
The Couple:
Elisa and Alessandro
The Wedding:
The Abbey of San Pietro, Umbria, Italy
Why The Abbey of San Pietro?
The Abbey of San Pietro in Valle in Ferentillo holds a special place in my heart. I used to go there as a child with my parents and it represents authentic Umbria—a jewel set in the mountains. For us, it was the ideal place for the kind of wedding we were planning. After he asked me to marry him, the first thing I did was call to find out the available dates.
Wedding Planning Advice
During the planning process, we let ourselves be guided by emotions. We were lucky enough to meet wonderful people on our path. I believe that the organization of the wedding is part of the wedding itself. The greatest advice is to enjoy every single moment. Not everything will go perfectly, but it will be perfect.
Perfectly Romantic Wedding Colors
We choose our colors with floral designer Sartoria Floreale. Romina is located in the heart of Spoleto and from the first meeting, we immediately felt in harmony. We met in the center of her shop immersed in the colors and scents of flowers and essential oils. At the end of the meeting, we settled on the idea of using Rosa Cipria, mauve, white, butter, sage green palette with a very light touch of burgundy. Then we added dark iron in the materials and glass to create a dreamy color palette!
Shopping For Wedding Dresses
When I saw my wedding dress, it was love at first sight. It was the first one I tried on. Simple, but elegant fabric with a tailored cut. It was more of a white evening dress—I felt like a real princess. Inspired by an icon of mine, Charlotte of Monaco, I added a necklace for the reception.
Congratulations to Elisa and Alessandro on your romantic and intimate wedding! Thank you to Andrea & Federica for capturing this beautiful day and for sharing it with us. If you love the Italian countryside, get some additional inspiration from this modern vintage wedding and this vineyard wedding to make you feel like you’re in Italy.
Image by Sav Brown. See more of this styled elopement here
When it comes to honeymoons, no rule says you have to jet set to a far-off destination. Whether you’re saving up money to pay off debts, buy a house, or you’re just not ready to travel, there are still many ways to celebrate being a newlywed with your new partner.
From low-key plans like spa days to adrenaline-rushing activities like a hot air balloon ride, these creative honeymoon ideas give you the chance to soak in the feeling that is being newly married without having to hop on a plane!
If you and your new spouse are big adventure lovers, this one’s for you. Whether you pitch a tent or you opt to go glamping, there’s nothing better than getting out and being one with nature. Camping gives you the chance to sleep under the stars (so romantic), hike, swim, tube, or just kick back and relax with your favorite book in a hammock. Just don’t forget to pack the s’mores!
Spa Day
Although you may not be traveling, a honeymoon can still be all about treating yourself for all of the hard work that goes into wedding planning. A spa day will leave you feeling relaxed, and you’ll walk away a brand new person. Complete the experience with massages, manicures, pedicures, facials, and more.
Is there anything better than a home-cooked meal? Spend quality time together and whip up a meal to remember at a cooking class. Whip up homemade pasta, a cultural fusion, or the dessert of your dreams–there are so many options to choose from. Plus, you’ll be able to keep the recipe and make it a regular meal throughout your marriage.
If you’d rather someone do the cooking for you, you can also hire a private chef to come to your home and prepare a meal for the two of you. This way, you can sit back and relax with a glass of wine.
Go To A Music Festival
If you’ve ever attended a music festival, then you know how exciting it is to watch some of your favorite music artists with your friends. It’s even better with your spouse! Make new memories with your spouse and find a music festival with artists you both love. A weekend spent listening to good tunes, dancing, and soaking up the sunshine–what more could you want?
Are you looking to spice things up a bit? While you could get a couple’s massage–which we’re always a fan of–why not bring the heat home? Melt offers online massage courses that teach you how to finesse your hands and focus on the areas of tension for the ultimate relaxation experience. All you need is oil, your partner, and a computer.
Spend A Day At An Amusement Park
We wholeheartedly believe that we’re all children at heart, and there’s no better way to showcase our playful sides than a day at an amusement park. From arcade games with prizes to roller coasters that will have you screaming your head off, this is such an easy and fun way to celebrate your love.
Volunteer
If you and your new spouse would rather spend your time helping others, a volunteer day is one of the sweetest and most thoughtful ways to celebrate your love while giving back. It’s a creative way to create memories and create a long-lasting impact on your community.
Help plant a community garden, spend the day at the humane society playing with pups, or put together care packages for the homeless. Follow up your hard work with a nice dinner, just the two of you, and talk about everything you felt and learned during your creative honeymoon experience.
Did you know that you can rent vintage cars and drive around town like you’re a 1950s movie star? Throw on those cat-eye sunglasses, headscarves, and loafers and hit up the city in the vintage car of your dreams. We highly suggest a convertible if the weather is permitting.
Take A Hot Air Balloon Ride
Adrenaline junkies, this one’s for you. Take your love to new heights–literally–by going on a hot air balloon ride. It’s a great way to see your city from a new perspective and gain a sense of peace. If you really want to kick off being newlyweds, find a company that puts together a celebratory breakfast and champagne toast for you before take off.
Honeymoon Wine Tasting And Brewery Tour
Looking for a boozy way to commemorate your wedding day? Head over to your local winery or brewery and make a day of tasting and snacking. There’s nothing quite like drinking the day away under the sun while snacking on charcuterie boards or pretzels.
You don’t have to live near the ocean for this one. Whether you’re on the coast or you’re a short drive away from a lake, renting a boat is a fun way to soak up some sun and get out on the water. If you’re looking for some exercise, opt for a two-person canoe or kayak. If you’re all about chilling out, see what your options are for jet skis or pontoon boats.
Go Horseback Riding
Are you and your significant other outdoor enthusiasts? Animal lovers? If so, combine the two loves with horseback riding. You get to spend time out in the fresh air while enjoying the company of some of the most beautiful creatures on Earth.
Golf
Want some friendly competition? We got you covered. Hit the golf courses for this one. If mini-golf is more your speed, go for it. Or make your way to your local golf course for some serious game time. No matter what your golf skill is, this is a fun way to challenge yourself and have a playful rivalry—the loser has to buy the winner a milkshake!
If you don’t mind the expense, enjoy a trip in the skies. That’s right, take a helicopter ride together. This gives you a chance to get a birds-eye view of your city, a national park, or a big nearby landmark. Find a sunrise or sunset option and watch the world transform in front of your eyes for some added romance.
Skydiving
Maybe roller coasters, hot air balloons, or helicopter rides aren’t enough for you. Take the ultimate plunge together and jump out of a plane instead. Skydiving is a surefire way to get your adrenaline rushing and celebrate taking the leap of marriage together.
Go Down Memory Lane
One of the most romantic things you can do together is stroll down memory lane and revisit spots that were important to you while dating. This could be a park, a restaurant where you had your first date, or even the place where you got engaged. The options are endless.
Escape the heat during the summer months or hit the slopes in the winter months by renting a cabin for a creative honeymoon getaway. There’s truly nothing more serene than being surrounded by nature and the sound of the wind gently blowing through the trees.
See a Broadway show
Switch up your typical Netflix and dinner routine by opting for a Broadway show instead. Check out your nearby theater and see what shows are playing for a night full of music, dancing, and entertainment.
Take A Pottery-Making Class
If you’ve seen Ghost, you’ve probably always wanted to go on a romantic pottery-making date. It’s a cool way to express your creative side and get closer to one another. Plus, you get a cool souvenir to take home with you, and there are sure to be laughs along the way.
This dazzling traditional outdoor wedding proves that traditional doesn’t mean sacrificing unique, personalized, and unforgettable details. Diana and Tom, with the help of their wedding planner Avavi Bali Weddings, designed their dream wedding with intentionality in mind—every detail having a powerful purpose. With good food, entertainment, and jaw-dropping water-front views you can’t go wrong. Not to mention the fun-filled party that ended the night and kicked this couple’s marriage off with a bang. Literally and metaphorically—with fireworks lighting up the sky and the smiles on the guests faces, many of whom had traveled from all over the world.
Photographer Terralogical did an incredible job snapping memories that will last long beyond Diana and Tom’s wedding day.
More From The Event Planner On Bringing To Life This Dazzling Wedding
The Bride, Diana, who loves details and design was fully involved in planning her big day and made sure every detail had special meaning! Together with her wedding planner Elisabeth from Avavi Bali Weddings and the wedding decorator Diane & Catharina from Bali Event Styling they brought it all to reality.
Before the actual wedding ceremony, the bride and groom participated in a traditional Chinese tea ceremony with their parents and family held at the villa located in the resort. The tea ceremony highlighted the importance and meaning of family. The actual meaning behind serving tea is to honor honoring God, grandparents, and their parents.
The Couple:
Diana and Tom
The Wedding:
Badung, Bali, Indonesia
Prioritize Meaningful Wedding Elements
Prioritize the aspects that matter to you the most. Though you want to plan a perfect wedding, don’t fret over every tiny detail or else you’ll find yourselves overwhelmed. Find three aspects that matter to you and your partner the most and spend the most time and energy on those.
A Traditional Outdoor Wedding Turned Party
A lot of our guests mentioned that our wedding was one of the most fun ones that they’ve been to—we were really happy to hear that! Our guests flew in from different parts of the world to be here, and we wanted to make sure they had a good time. Our good friends and emcees were charming and hilarious—keeping the mood lighthearted and chill. We made sure our program was smooth and well-organized so that all guests were well taken care of. At our reception, we played wedding games that involved the guests and ensured that there was plenty of alcohol for everyone (very important!).
Meaningful Wedding Party Favors
We wanted to give out wedding favors that were also meaningful to the guests – we made customized photo frames with our initials on them. At our reception, we had a polaroid station, where guests took photos and inserted them into the frame.
Ending The Night With A Fully-Clothed Swim
We surprised our guests by ending our First Dance with fireworks and the song Despacito, which really got the crowd going—the perfect way to kick off the after-party! At that point, the pressure to ensure everything went smoothly was over. We were able to relax and enjoy ourselves with our friends and family, who flew in from different parts of the world just for us. Everyone was dancing, drinking, having a good time. People even started jumping into the pool for the after-after party. The rest was all a fun blur.
